Hiring an escort is an exhilarating experience even for regulars. For beginners, it can be a daunting experience. This is why we compiled this short ‘Escort Etiquette Dos and Don’ts Guide’ for beginners to get the most out of your experience so that you leave with a happy smile after every session.
** Related: Newbies guide to brothels.
Escort Etiquette: Don’ts
1. Negotiate on Price or Asking for Discount
Let’s be real here. Escorts offer a professional service for a price. Yes, it is true that many enjoy sex but they are in the business to earn a good living. By haggling, you are questioning the standard of their service. If you think an escort’s asking price is too high to pay simply find another that’s within your price range. You will find an escorts charging price is often determined by the markets supply and demand – if they charge too high and their service is not up to standard they will not have many customers which in turn will cause them to lower their price. Likewise, if their rate is too low they will have too many customers to deal with.
Expert Tip: There may be a way to receive discounts or even freebies and that’s to become a regular client. However, never go in with that expectation and anything else you get will be a bonus.
2. Not Confirming Services Beforehand
Escorts provide a wide variety of services which may or may not include sex. Yes, you read correctly. While sex is on the table the majority of the time, escorts offer a wide variety of services including dinner dates, cuddling and going out to movies. If sex is not listed as a service then you need to ask beforehand to avoid disappointment.
3. Don’t be Rude
Always be polite. Derogatory terms like whore, prostitute, slut, etc… should never be used unless of course it’s agreed by both parties to be used for role play. If you are rude, don’t be surprised to be shown the door. Escorts often work in a close knit circle so word travels fast and if you are rude you may be blacklisted by other escorts as well.
4. Asking Her to be Your Girlfriend
It can be understood that two people having a physical relationship can often lead to other things. However, it is essentially in their job description to be desirable and friendly. Do not mistaken this as a signal for something more. Escorts are there for companionship and to provide a good time not to have a relationship with you. If you are a regular and she likes you she will let you know. Otherwise, don’t make things awkward.
5.Overstay Your Welcome
Escorts work to their schedule just like any other profession. If you want to linger after the session, ask her beforehand for an extended session and maybe she will comply IF she doesn’t have the following session booked. Otherwise, stick to the agreed session time. You wouldn’t expect a dentist or lawyer to work overtime without pay so don’t expect this with an escort either.
Escort Etiquette: Dos
1. Repeat Visits
We know you want to visit as many and different escorts as possible but do try to be regulars with a select few you find have the best attitude and service. Benefits of being a regular include better overall satisfaction and service due to prior knowledge and relationship built. Plus, regulars are more likely to receive other special services. Trust us on this one.
2. Have a Good Chat
We all hire escorts for different reasons. Many for physical needs, entertainment and companionship. However, you may be surprised at how good escorts are at holding conversation. Statistically, escorts have a higher education than the average person. They also happen to be good listeners and have good knowledge on various subjects.
So, next time you meet up with an escort, ask her how her day was or talk about yours and you may find yourself extending the session for reasons other than physical!
3. Be Respectful
This should be common courtesy but we find many who hire escorts think they can get way with rude or appalling behaviour that they can’t get away with anywhere else. Escorts are companions who provide a set of services. The quality of the session works both ways. If you are respectful, you will find it reciprocated. After all, if you make their time pleasant, they will also make yours pleasant.
4. Be Specific on What you Want
If you’re a newbie or just shy, it can be difficult to express what you want or desire. However, if you are spending your hard earned dollars on something, you might as well make the most of it. Communication is vital so that both parties have a good time. If you get what you want then the escorts job is done so it’s win-win situation. So next time you visit an escort, don’t be afraid to speak out your fantasies. They won’t be surprised and most likely it will be nothing they haven’t heard before.
5. Have a Good Time
At the end of the day, escorts are there to please and you are there to be pleased. However, there may be times when you may not click with your companion. Different strokes for different folks after all but rather than be polite and soldier through, our suggestion is to walk away before money exchanges hands. Trust us, escorts would rather you walk than go through an unpleasant sessions. They have their reputation to uphold and would rather that you have a great session rather than go through a bad one and complain about it on our reviews section afterwards.
So there you have it, 5 Dos and Don’ts of visiting an escort. Do you have more tips and tricks to get the most out of an escort experience? Voice your opinions below.